| Hey everyone...
Wow! It has been awhile since i last logged in my xanga. I'm back because i saw this message from my friendster, and i decided to put it up on my xanga.. so here it is..
For all you people who say "I love you" when you have no clue what love exactly is!!! then here is something to ponder upon...
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, and is your voice caught within your chest?? -It isn't love, it's LIKE.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?? -It isn't love, it's LUST.
Are you proud and eager to show them off?? -It isn't love, it's LUCK.
Do you want them because you know they're there?? -It isn't love, it's LONELINESS.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?? -It isn't love, it's LOYALTY.
Are you there because they kissed you or held your hands?? -It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE.
Do you stay for their confessions of love because you don't want to hurt them?? -It isn't love, it's PITY.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?? -it isn't love, it's INFATUATION.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?? -It isn't love, it's FRIENDSHIP.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of??? -It isn't love, it's a LIE.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?? -It isn't love, it's CHARITY.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?? -Then it's LOVE.
Do you cry for their pain even when they're strong?? -Then it's LOVE.
Do their eyes see your true heart and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?? -Then it's LOVE.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensive mix of pain and relation pulls you close and hold you there?? -Then it's LOVE.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?? -Then it's LOVE.
Are you attracted to others but stay with them faithfully without regret?? -Then it's LOVE.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?? -Then it's LOVE.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
this thing ended at the "why?" part...but i thought id maybe share my reason for "why"....to me...i think we search and long for love because its the one emotion that makes us feel alive. its the only emotion that can make u feel like the happiest person in the whole world and the saddest person also...all at the same time. it makes u feel complete....by u make a connection/bond with someone else....a connection that is uniquely different from all the other relationships that u may have....like with your family and friends. its the one emotion that when its time for u to leave this world...and u look back at your whole entire life....u jus smile....knowin that u have loved and been loved....and that u can leave with the satisfaction knowin that u lived a meaningful, joyous, and worthy life.
Well.. i'll be back for more later.. or maybe with pictures just to update you guys of what i've been doing this summer.. hehe.. aite..take cares.. bye! |